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Fantasies vs Actual Behavior

The distinction between fantasies and actual behavior in the context of consensual non-monogamy.

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Jan 20, 2026
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Are there common patterns in the intensity, frequency, and themes of women's sexual fantasies from young adulthood to later life?

Across decades of research there are reproducible patterns: many studies report that women’s sexual fantasies rise in number and intensity from young adulthood into the late 20s and peak around the ea...

Jan 31, 2026
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How do demographics (age, relationship status, culture) shape the gap between women’s sexual fantasies and enacted sexual behaviors?

Demographics—especially age, relationship status (including ), and culture—help explain report fantasies that they do not enact: these factors shape desire, opportunity, social acceptability, and the ...

Feb 7, 2026

What role do hormones and biology play in shaping female sexual fantasies?

provide measurable scaffolding for female sexual fantasies by shaping brain development, modulating sexual motivation across the menstrual cycle, and influencing immediate physiological arousal, but t...

Feb 6, 2026

How do female sexual fantasies vary by age, culture, and relationship status?

Research across decades shows are neither monolithic nor fixed: some content types remain stable from late teens through middle age while other features shift with life stage, culture and whether a wo...

Jan 20, 2026

How do cultural attitudes and media exposure shape the sexual fantasies women report at different ages?

Cultural attitudes and media exposure shape which sexual fantasies women report by influencing what is considered acceptable to desire, how fantasies are remembered and shared, and which themes are ma...